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If you are trying  to pick up women online and
just can’t get at least one date a week you
certainly need a little help. Just read this
article and  start using these online flirting
success tips and they will help you to get that
first date much faster.You don’t want to spend
too much time online because you really can’t
feel the chemistry until the first “real world”
date. However, you can get the women you’re
talking to to be  interested in you and set her “
on fire” just to get to know you better.Keep in
mind that women feel attraction for a very
different set of reasons than men do. Where men
focus more on looks, women focus more on
personality, self esteem, power and confidence.
So, what are the secrets to get a date after one
hour and 15 minutes of  flirting online?

1. Make your replies simple and use easy
questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not
on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a
way of connecting from the heart and
acknowledging someone. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with.

2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit
unreachable. Think of yourself as special and
know what you deserve.

3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all
flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that
makes others want to get to know you.

4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit
arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining
challenge that women just love to engage in…
If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she
is NOT expecting, then something magical begins
to happen: she feels a spark of attraction,
curiosity, intrigue because you’re obviously
different.

5. People like people who are interested in them.
So  when you engage someone in conversation make
sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening
to THEM!

6.When you are talking about you, tell enough
just to get her trust but keep a little mystery
about you.

7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one
hour of online conversation you have to make her
believe that you’re confident, that you’re
intelligent and funny. Don’t stay any longer or
you risk to become boring.

8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you
let her know that you’re interested in her. Set
another online date but not for the next day. You
are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit.

9. At the second date (online), after 15 minutes
of talking, just say “Hey, I have some spare time
this evening, can we meet? I just want to…
convince myself that you are real.” This way, she
will be surprised and won’t have to much time to
make the decision and you will run less risk of
being rejected. If she is interested in you but
she already has something fixed for that evening,
she will ask for a date another time. If she don’
t, just say, next!

Good luck and have fun!

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A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: “What does love mean?”

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think…

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“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca - age 8

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“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy - age 4

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“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri - age 4

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“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny - age 7

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“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.”

Emily - age 8

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“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

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“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.”

Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

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“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

Noelle - age 7

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“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy - age 6

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“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

Cindy - age 8

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“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine - age 5

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

Chris - age 7

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“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”

Mary Ann - age 4

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“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” (Now THIS is love!)

Lauren - age 4

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“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image!)

Karen - age 7

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”

Mark - age 6

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“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica - age 8

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And the final one…

Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

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Sex life?  What sex life?  You’re a parent and life is so busy that you barely have time to think about your own needs, let alone do anything about meeting them.  It can seem like your own needs don’t matter, it’s the children that have top priority and you have to do whatever it takes to look after them.  Don’t be fooled, your needs are important and neglecting them isn’t good for anyone, not you, not your partner and definitely not your children.  Sure you can’t do all the things you did before children, life has changed and pleasure comes in different ways.  But you are still an adult with adult needs and for you to feel fulfilled they need to be met.

So how do you find time and energy for sex when there are so many other things demanding your attention?  It takes a bit more planning and effort than in the past but you need to tell yourself that it can happen and it is definitely worth it.

What if you don’t want anyone touching you after having children crawling all over you all day?  Some people have a quotient for the amount of physical contact they need and can comfortably accommodate in a day.  But if you think about it children touch you differently to how your partner touches you and for the most part, it’s all take.

So how do you have more sex?  Okay, how do you have any sex?

1. Make it a priority and it will happen.  Feeding the children quickly becomes a priority when you have nagging children at your feet.  Make your desires like that and don’t let up until you have got what you need.

2. Find a time that works.  It may be early in the morning before the children wake up, it may be immediately after they’ve gone to bed ignoring the dishes and the washing and cleaning up, it may be during the day while the kids are watching a video.  You have to make time for each other.

3. Do some things that make you think about sex.  It can be hard to switch your brain from babyland to sex so you may need a little help.  Watch a sexy movie, read erotic fiction together, write your partner a sexy note, think back to a time when you had great sex (c’mon you can do that, it can’t be that long, surely, you have children afterall!), relive how good it felt.

4. Take a shower together.  There is something about getting naked and wet together that can be very erotic.

5. Expect interruptions and don’t be put off.  OK you start kissing and you hear a baby cry.  You try to ignore it but you can’t.  So you go off and tend to them and then think the moment is gone.  But it isn’t.  And if it is then get it back by viewing the interruption as a diversion which has increased your appetite for sex not soured it.

6. Don’t wait until you get into bed to initiate sex.  When you’ve been together awhile it’s easy to fall into habits, like falling into a deep sleep as soon as your head touches the pillow, and sometimes it’s those habits that you need to break in order to kickstart your sex life.  Sex can happen anywhere so make use of the spaces you have.

7. And the most important thing you need to do – don’t give up!  You can find a way to make it happen.  Know that your needs are important and you will function better when they’ve been met.

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